Speaking: amp up your impact with these two ingredients

By Lori

Welcome to Famous in Your Field! Here’s your free weekly tip to boost your fame factor. (Be sure to sign up in the box on the right to get on the VIP list for free tips and training, delivered straight to your inbox.) 

Famous in your field tip: when speaking, (especially on a webinar, teleseminar or radio interview) talk to one specific person.

You have an amazing talent, service or product to share. (Holla! Cause it’s true.)

And to get that magic into the world, you need to serve up a message that grabs your audience and HOLDs them.

Of course, you want to reach everyone who needs what you’ve got.

But here’s the problem. Talking to everyone will resonate with no one.

When your speech or presentation isn’t delivered with one very specific person in mind then it will sound like the safety message that you hear every time you board an airplane. Do you tune into that? Nope, me neither. But it’s an important message.

Just like yours.

So how do you do you reach your would-be fans with your message? It’s simple: talk to the passenger next to you not the whole plane!

Party of 2

Think of your presentation, speech or webinar as a conversation between you and one specific person you know well. It’s counterintuitive, but it works!

When you try to speak to everyone, it actually makes your tone of voice sound automated and rehearsed. I call it “tour guide voice.”

Instead, think of one person you know and talk to that person. It could be your best friend, cousin or neighbor (the one you like).

Doing this will change the words you emphasize and your tone of voice will be personal and warm. Your audience – virtually everyone in your audience – will feel an emotional connection to you. Your speech to 100 or 1 million people morphs from a lecture to a conversation. And that’s when you’ve captured hearts and minds.

BONUS: This will help with those nutty nerves that pop up when you’re in front of an audience too. Talking to your friend doesn’t make you nervous, right?

Mix it up

While you’re talking, try adding pauses around specific words or sentences – you know the ones that are at the heart of your message. The ones that cause people to go “REALLY?” and “AHA!” Pausing before or after them will “shine the spotlight” on them.

However, use pauses sparingly! Don’t. pause. after. every. sentence. Examples of this bad habit? President Obama and Captain James T. Kirk. It’s not conversational. Your message gets chopped up, your point is pureed and your content? Crushed.

These two small ingredients blended with your amazing content will whip up an experience that whets your audience’s appetite for more!

Servings: Infinite

Your Fame Boosting Assignment:

This week, when you’re giving a presentation, speech, webinar or recording a podcast, think of one person and talk to him or her. And in any conversation where you want to make an impact, pause around your power phrases. That’s it! Now you’re shining like a spotlight.
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