Famous in your field: five tips to get started speaking

Famous in your field: five tips to get started speaking

Wendy writes:

I’m just now starting to look for opportunities to speak. It’s getting people to agree to have me since I’m NOT famous! ūüôā

Hey, Wendy, you are not alone. Getting booked as a speaker can feel as daunting as¬†getting your first job. It’s that same conundrum:

You can’t get experience until you get hired, yet you can’t get hired without experience.¬†

There are about 3,000 professional speakers in the National Speakers Association and about 1,500 more in professional associations in Europe.

But there are millions of people who have information or a message to share.

Here’s what I want you to remember: there is no¬†competition for being you.

And if you can help people improve their lives in some way, there are groups who want to hear from you.

It takes¬†work to gain momentum as a speaker. Here are five tips to get your wheels turning. (Put these into practice and you’ll be tearing up the track in no time!)

1. Start locally

Getting on the main stage at TED, DreamForce or Davos might be on your vision board, but you’ll up your chances of getting there if you start in your own backyard.

Research local groups, events and companies. Reach out to the organizer to offer yourself as a speaker.

Need a little help getting started? I’ve got you covered with a massive list of 17 Ways to Fine Speaking Opportunities.

2. Build your case

Reach out to event organizers to let them know why your topic/info is valuable to their audience.

  • Will it help them be better employees, mothers, fathers, parishioners, etc.?
  • What will they be able to do after they’ve experienced you speaking? What are the outcomes or learning objectives?
  • What’s the benefit the audience will walk away with (the benefit is NOT the information they learn; it’s the “so that” that follows learning the information.)Like this: “Your members will learn how to use gamification with their kids to get them to finish homework, clean their rooms and do their chores, so that they¬†can quit yelling and enjoy more fun as a family.”

3. Reduce the risk

No one wants to be known as the “one who recommended that dud.” That’s why organizers practice risk management by sticking to known speakers and referrals.

Reduce the risk for the event organizer by offering proof up front that you’ll be a hit with their audience.

What can you offer to make it a no brainer? Try these three:

  • Testimonials
  • Video of you speaking to an audience
  • An outline of your talk and how you’ll involve the audience

Bonus: let ’em try before they buy! If you have any upcoming speaking events, invite organizers from groups you hope to speak to. They get a chance to see you in action and you get to market yourself while you’re speaking. Genius, baby.

4. Build your fan base

Speak for free in return for referrals and testimonials. (Even the pros do this strategically.)

Seth Braun is a paid professional speaker covering leadership and small business topics. Even though Braun earns a six-figure income through speaking and coaching, he still speaks for free at times.

“I am always looking for how can I get more¬†gigs. And the best way that I know of to get more gigs is to¬†speak and the best way to speak is just to speak more, so I‚Äôm¬†still booking no fee gigs.”

Seth gives no fee talks for one of two reasons:

  • To give back to causes he supports.
  • To get his “foot in the door” with an organization that he believes will hire him for future work.

5. Go where you want to be

Don’t just sit home, waiting the Universe to magically bring speaking opportunities to your door!

Go to events where you’d like to speak. Before you go, research the event. Create a target list of people that you want to meet.

At the event, ask each person on your target list what they do and about their challenges. Get to know the organizers, members and participants. You’ll get the insight you need to pitch yourself as the must-have speaker for their next event. (Hint: your pitch involves helping them, not just¬†how killer¬†you would be as a speaker.)

Your Fame Boosting Assignment

This week,¬†make a list of ten¬†events or organizations where you’d like to speak. If they have upcoming events, attend them! Make connections and when you’re ready, make your pitch.

It’s time for you to get found in the crowd, superstar.



  1. Cindy on February 9, 2015 at 9:34 am

    Great list for Wendy and everyone telling their story. “Go where you want to be” Lori – you know this I just hope the world reads it and executes on it. Whether you are a speaker or a job seeker ‘go where you want to be’ show up and be open to the opportunities around you!

    • Lori on February 14, 2015 at 4:53 pm

      You are right, Cindy! Going where you want to be is the key to getting a great new job or becoming a speaker.

  2. Jane Lovas on February 10, 2015 at 8:39 am

    As always great ideas. They are simple and so easy to forget when we look at those who ‘have made it’ and wonder how we’re going to get there. One step at a time taken consistently takes one to their destination.


    • Lori on February 14, 2015 at 4:52 pm

      You’re so right, Jane. I think people have the idea that popular speakers were plucked from obscurity and soar to fame, but instead it’s a slow, steady march.

  3. Lilia Lee on February 14, 2015 at 9:38 am

    Another great, easily implementable list of suggestions. Thanks Lori for this. And, as Jane Lovas says, one step at a time.

    • Lori on February 14, 2015 at 4:50 pm

      Thanks, Lilia. It must be in the zeitgeist – I wrote about “small steps every day” in my weekly newsletter, too.

  4. Cena from SaneSpaces.com on February 18, 2015 at 10:50 am

    Would love to have a future post from you about fee and free speaking Lori.. What the benefits and differentials are, and what the budgets and rules are… LOVE YOUR STUFF!

    • Lori on April 2, 2015 at 4:43 pm

      Oh, I’d love to write that for your blog, Cena. What a great suggestion!

  5. Kelly on February 18, 2015 at 10:58 am

    Ohhhh!I want what Cena said!! And i too Loooove you!!

  6. John Livingston on March 10, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    My name is John Livingston and I am a motivational speaker and graduate of Toastmasters International Competent Communicator.
    I am a native New Yorker currently residing in ABQ NM and I want to begin my career as a public speaker but I could use a jump start !
    I would welcome any and all assistance on this matter !
    Thank You
    John Livingston

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